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Aug 19, 2007
★★★★★
In the last 24 hours I’ve just read a novel. It’s the swiftest I think I’ve read any book in many years. Khaled Hosseini’s A Thousand Splendid Suns came to me by way of Relevant Magazine’s summer reading list and I’m grateful to have found it.
It’s not a book I would have chosen to read on my own simply because it’s so difficult to know which books in today’s secular market will not hold some sort of over-sexual scenes, dubiously subtle political opinions, or even rife and bitter jabs at Christian society.
When I read, I want to hear something dramatic, but real; heartwarming, but not overly sentimental. I want to read something that changes the way I look at the world without telling me how to think about the world.
This is a book that accomplishes of that and more.
## The Story
??(publication)A Thousand Splendid Suns?? is a story of two women, born in different times and different regions of Afghanistan who find themselves married to the same man. It’s not an unusual thing where they come from, but because of each of their individual circumstances leading up to this dual marriage, each of them sees the world - and their marriage - differently.
In the middle of war after war, as politics change the rules it seems every day, these women adjust to the changes forced upon them in the most honorable way they can find. The hold back tears and move on with a drive no woman should have to experience.
Laila and Mariam soon find they share more than a husband, and in a world where women are secondary citizens if citizens at all, they find allies in each other as they fight to survive without losing hope for a normal existence with family, laughter, and love.
## The Impact
What Hosseini has done with this story goes beyond what our newspapers and other media are capable of doing. Through the eyes and hearts of two ordinary fictional women, he has pulled a veil from the reality of the lives of Afghani women.
He shows plainly the darkness they face every day, but couples it with the faint hope that comes with the realization that not only could it be much worse, but that there is a God (Allah) who will not allow the suffering to go on forever.*(pq)No matter how bleak their hearts, there is always a word from God to encourage.*
Amid circumstances American women today could never imagine for themselves, we see strength of character and duty filled with mindful wisdom. These women seem to age much more quickly in their world and the author does well in making the reader feel the prematurity of this aging, but also the admiration that we should all be obligated to feel for such women.
And although the world in which we see these women is harrowing and seems to have no out, we also see a glimpse of some good men along the way. Though the author stresses the courage of women, he also makes plain the positive impact a decent man can have in giving a woman her strength.
> “Laila remembered Mammy telling Babi once that she had married a man who had no convictions. Mammy didn’t understand. She didn’t understand that if she looked into a mirror, she would find the one unfailing conviction of his life looking right back at her.”
Here was a good man who loved deeply long after he had lost the respect of his wife for allowing her sons to go to war. This goodness and strength is passed on to his daughter so that through what the author describes poetically as an _impotent rage_ against her abusive husband, Laila can carry herself through all sorts of pain for the sake of others.
Personally…
…I know I’ll never look at an Afghani woman the same. It’s like I have a secret window into their world that makes me respect them much more. I see a ferocity for survival that is unmatched in my world. Nothing I know can ever compete with what these women deal with in an everyday life.
The country they love has been torn to shreds and they want it back. I want to give it to them. More than anything, I want to hug my daughters and know, with all degrees of gratefulness, that I’ll always have the right to keep them safe and happy.
Chris Goodrich left a comment on August 20, 2007 at 4:44 pm | #
Amazing article Natalie! I have been reading this book off and on all summer. I bought it the day after it came out because I had read The Kite Runner as part of orientation into college.
I love Hosseini’s writing. Everything from his diction to syntax just seems to make the story flow with amazing skill and style.
I have yet to finish the book because of my other obligations and responsibilities, but I carry it with me wherever I go hoping that I will have 5 minutes to read a chapter.
I have to say that your insight and writing about this book is just as great Natalie! You have a creative gift; in design and in writing. Thanks again for your article!
Chris
Natalie left a comment on August 20, 2007 at 4:57 pm | #
Chris, you’re so kind, thank you. I don’t review books often but this was one I just couldn’t put down – literally. To be honest, I was hoping it could be a book I could carry around with me for short reads too, wished it would last longer, but I couldn’t stand waiting. In fact, I couldn’t sleep Saturday night because I kept picking it back up again! :)
Chris Goodrich left a comment on August 20, 2007 at 6:11 pm | #
I finished the first part within like 2 days of purchasing it. I couldn’t put it down. However, distractions got the best of me and I haven’t had the chance to pick it up for a prolonged read for a while now. :o(
Hopefully I will be able to finish it here soon. Did you ever read The Kite Runner?
Natalie left a comment on August 20, 2007 at 6:15 pm | #
I haven’t read that one yet and I spent my book budget for the month, but I’ll see if I can get my hands on it next!
Chris Goodrich left a comment on August 20, 2007 at 6:39 pm | #
The book is written with a very similar style and similar setting. The Kite Runner is one of my all time favorite books and I hope to re-read it sometime soon.
I admire your conviction in sticking to your budget! Contact me via email and I will be more than happy to let you borrow my copy of The Kite Runner.